This blog is about change. Not about any change, but change for the better...finding life anew. It is about my experience with me, my experience with other people, and what I have learned of their experience with themselves. The great paradox of change is that I am constantly changing, but yet so often when I try to change on purpose it seems so very hard and so easy to mess up. A friend told me once, "The good lord gave each of us a limit to how smart we can be, but gave us no limits as to how stupid we can be." I am sometimes the product of that unlimited ability.